I know you have all donated a can or two to help feed the hungry probably a million times in your life. My children love milk and I just found out that there are children in America that have to go without. My children drink 2-3 gallons of milk a week between the two of them and hearing that on the average, food banks can only offer 1 gallon of milk per client PER YEAR.
My heart broke when I heard this. Looking at my two children I realized how lucky we are. Times are tough sometimes but there has never been a time when my children had to do without milk. I now thank God everyday that my children are lucky enough to be able to reach into the fridge for a glass of ice cold milk. As I thought about the people who are not lucky enough to have milk on a daily basis I realized that my family must help.
What better way to learn how to give to others during the Holidays and every day for that matter than by donating Santa’s glass of milk this year to those that are less fortunate so that they for once do not have to go without.
Then I decided that along with donating Santa’s glass of milk this year we would work together as a family to donate a whole gallon. Now my children don’t really have money but I talked to them and we decided that we would give up milk for 3 days (the equivalent of a gallon of milk in our house) so that we could better understand how important it is to help the less fortunate get some milk for their families. We will take the money that we saved from not drinking the milk and donate that to The Great American Milk Drive. This would give my children a way to reach out and help, to learn and and be proud of what they accomplished by the end of our mission.
Some may say this is a little over the top but if I don’t accomplish anything in life but to teach my children how to give and understand those that need help then I have succeeded as a mother. My children know about giving and donating because we make sure that they do. Everyone goes through a period in their life where they struggle and it is important to help others.
Day One
My children looked into the refrigerator as we discussed what we could have for breakfast as we looked at our empty gallon of milk. Cereal was out unless they wanted to eat it dry… oatmeal was what they chose. We normally make it with milk but went ahead and made it with water this time. They said it tasted weird but ate it anyway.
Lunch time was a little easier because we made sandwiches and served some apple juice but my kids are milk drinkers and they were already starting to get a little antsy and missing their glasses of milk.
Dinner consisted of cheeseburgers and mac and cheese…… we added a little more butter and a tad bit of water. They said it was gross but ate it anyway. This was probably the first time that they ate more fruit and meat than the mac and cheese. It did taste kind of weird.
Day Two
We ate dry cereal today mixed with yogurt. They longingly looked at the gallon of milk and sighed. My oldest daughter sat at the breakfast table and said “Mom, people really go without milk all the time?”. I answered back “Yes they do babe….. how does that make you feel?” She answered back with “Sad mom…… it makes me very sad.”
The kiddos ate lunch at school today. My youngest had milk with her lunch but my oldest decided to stick with it and took a thermos of water to enjoy with her lunch. The youngest is three so I surely don’t expect her to understand the whole thing. She is going without her bedtime snack of fruit with a glass of milk and that is really a lot for her.
Dinnertime was homemade pizza so we didn’t have much to give up there except our drink of choice at the dinner table is milk. It’s hard not to run down and grab some but we are sure this is what we are wanting to do. We are really craving our favorite drink now and talking more and more about those that have to go without milk.
Day 3
My youngest is throwing a fit! She wants her milk and my oldest is just looking at me……..
“We can do this guys.” I say to them as I’m wanting to have a big glass of milk just as much as they do. They are now looking at me like I have gone crazy. We have toast for breakfast and talk about what it would be like if we had to go all year with no milk. We pray for those who don’t have milk and food and we ask God to show us other ways that we could help them.
Lunch was at school and my oldest held out again. She has really begun to understand the mission and is determined to make it.
Dinner was meatloaf, mashed potatoes and corn. I thought to myself…..maybe the next time I have a mission I should re-think the meal plan first. Then I laugh and pull out some butter and sour cream to mix with the potatoes. Wondering the whole time what I would do if I didn’t have sour cream. Realizing that we are luckier than we even know.
We had finally completed our mission and I sat down at the computer and called the family in to donate our gallon of milk to The Great American Milk Drive instead of leaving the glass out for Santa. In walks my oldest with tears in her eyes…….. she has $3 in her hand and said “Mom will you add this to what you are donating?”
I realized at that moment how lucky I really am……….
(Please note that my children were not harmed by missing out on milk for three days and I did not do this to be mean to them but to teach them something about helping the less fortunate. We are back to drinking milk just as we did before and the lesson they learned will last a lifetime.)
Making a Difference
On average, food bank clients receive the equivalent of less than one gallon of milk per person per year, leaving many families with limited access to milk’s essential nutrients, including 8 grams of high-quality protein per serving and three of the top nutrients most likely to be missing in the American diet – calcium, vitamin D and potassium.
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To date, 194,000 gallons have been donated as part of the industry’s ongoing commitment to helping families get much-desired nutrient-rich milk.
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This holiday season, you can help make the season brighter for hungry families with the gift of milk by donating at www.MilkLife.com/give
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By entering your zip code, you can ensure that milk is delivered to a local food bank to help nourish children in your own community.
I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.
Rachel Ferrucci says
It’s amazing how we take so many things for granted, like milk. I think this is a great campaign and we all need to help. I also think having your children go without for 3 days is a great way to teach them. It wasn’t too long and it’s something you can say “Remember When”
bekki says
We definitely have a few of those moments that we have shared over the years with the kiddos!
Liz Mays says
What an impactful lesson this one. I have no doubt it will stick with them and make a difference. I really love that you did this!
bekki says
Thank you LIz! The kids are still talking about finding milk for other people.
Debbie Denny says
This is awesome what you and the kids are doing. Hate the thought of a child not having milk if they want it.
bekki says
Thinking of kids going without milk put an awful feeling in my tummy. I hope the campaign really helps out a lot.
Robin (Masshole Mommy) says
What a great lesson to teach the kids. I love how you participated in this with them!
Christie says
This is a very insightful campaign this season! I really love the idea of donating Santa’s milk to those in need!
susan says
I know we take some of the simplest things for granted, and we should not. This was some great information, and I would love to donate too.
Jeanine says
I donate every year. What an amazing thing to do!!
Kiwi says
I think its adorable how they exchanged the milk for water. I read the days you all sacrificed for milk…and its a good lesson to teach the children because they do need to understand gratefulness and that others do go without past three days. This was nice and a great way to give back!
Jaime says
This is a great lesson for so many people to learn. My son drinks milk daily and chooses it over juice many times. He’d be incredibly sad if he didn’t have his daily glasses of milk.
Rosey says
I don’t think it’s overtop at all. I think it’s wonderful, and big kudos to you. I’m sure it will create seeds the kids continue to water and grow their whole lives, in one way or another.
Kathleen says
This is such a wonderful lesson you taught your kids. It is sad that milk is so hard for some people to come by. This is a fantastic campaign!
Catherine S says
This sounds like a great campaign. This was a great lesson for the kids.
Theresa says
What an amazing campaign! You did a fabulous job of connecting the cause with your children by not only giving, but by doing as well. I am sure they appreciate the fact that they are very fortunate to have milk where others do not now.
Veronica says
Great campaign. This is definitely the time of year for giving back and teaching kids to make it a way of life
Kecia says
Milk is such a staple in our home. It makes me extremely sad to think of any child having to do without it!
Ann Bacciaglia says
This is a great campaign. Such a great way to tech your kids that they are lucky have milk everyday.
Dawn says
That was an awesome thing to do with the kids. It really put them into the shoes of someone less fortunate.
Krystal says
I love it! It’s one thing to know something in the abstract. It’s another thing to actually feel it.
Melinda says
we drink so much milk in our house. I love this program and will do what I can
Debra says
I think you did a very clever thing by going without milk as a family for three days. It really did show your family – your older daughter especially – how fortunate they are to be able to go into the fridge on a moment’s notice and grab a glass of milk. bravo to you! We’ll be donating to this cause as well!
Tiffany (A Mom's Take) says
This is a splendid idea. I’m sure Santa can do without so much milk, hehehe.
Chrysa says
What a fun campaign. I love campaigns which involve the family with lessons to be learned. Thanks for sharing!
Amy Desrosiers says
I think it is great that you are teaching your kids to help others that are in need. My kids do not even like milk which is sad
Dawn says
I think donating the milk is a great idea! This letter to Santa is adorable!!
Camesha | Mama Motivator says
I’m not a huge fan o milk, so I’d be OK. My kids on the other hand would be losing it like your youngest. They are little milk nuts!
Kristin says
I never thought about donating Santa’s Milk. What a great way to teach kids about giving and how others don’t have what they take for granted.
Debbie L. says
We take so much for granted. I think lessons like this are really important to help kids and even remind adults that we are very blessed to have what we have.
Emily says
Your daughters are so incredibly sweet. It’s easy to forget how many people go without on a regular basis. Great organization.